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Why I Practice: A Love Letter to the Path

6/17/2025

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Through all the years…
The classes, the trainings, the beautiful and souls I’ve met--
The meaningful connections, the deep friendships, the sacred hellos and tender goodbyes--
The studios with their quiet corners, the wild and wide landscapes, the laughter that echoed, the tears that softened…
Something essential has never changed:
The commitment to practice.
No matter where life has taken me, this path—this steady rhythm of returning to the mat, to breath, to presence—has remained my anchor.
It’s not always easy. Life brings contrast: joy and sorrow, clarity and confusion, stillness and storms.
But the practice teaches me how to stay.
How to meet each moment with grace.
How to cultivate peace—not just as a feeling, but as a way of being.
Through practice, peace becomes embodied.
It begins to live in the breath, in the heartbeat, in the way we listen, move, and serve.
And that’s at the core of my message, always:
Serve all. Love all. Do Good, Be Good.
We practice peace within so that it naturally radiates outward. We trust, even when we don’t understand. We remember that things are unfolding—perfectly—in their own mysterious way.
This is why I practice.
To stay connected.
To live in alignment with love.
To walk through this world awake, steady, and openhearted.
May your practice hold you, as mine has held me.
May peace live in you—and flow through you.
With love,
Kumari
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Circa. 2009
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The Power of Breath: Using Pranayama in Yin Yoga

6/9/2025

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           In the stillness of Yin Yoga, we enter the deeper layers of the body—and breath becomes our guide. Pranayama, the ancient yogic practice of conscious breath regulation, is a natural and powerful companion to Yin Yoga. Together, they invite a journey into softness, presence, and profound transformation.
              Why Use Pranayama in Yin Yoga?While Yin Yoga targets the fascia and connective tissues by holding poses for extended periods, Pranayama works on the subtle body—balancing energy, calming the mind, and activating the parasympathetic nervous system. The combination helps practitioners go beyond muscular release into emotional and energetic unraveling.
              In Yin Yoga, the body may be still, but the breath creates movement within. Breath awareness becomes the bridge between sensation and surrender, making each posture more than just a shape—it becomes a meditation.

                                      Benefits of Pranayama in Yin Yoga​
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  • Nervous System Regulation
    Breath control activates the vagus nerve and encourages a shift into the rest-and-digest mode, making it easier to soften into long-held poses and remain present with discomfort.
  • Energetic Alignment
    Pranayama stimulates the flow of prana, or life force, through the nadis (energy channels), complementing the meridian and chakra work often emphasized in Yin Yoga.
  • Mental Clarity & Emotional Release
    When we bring awareness to the breath, we invite stillness into the mind. This allows stuck emotions or thoughts to rise, be witnessed, and dissolve gently.
  • Enhancing Stillness with Inner Movement
    Even when the body is still, the breath provides rhythm. It becomes a subtle anchor—one that supports both meditation and introspection.

                    How to Integrate Pranayama into Your Yin Practice

Here are gentle, accessible pranayama techniques that pair beautifully with Yin Yoga:
  • Ujjayi (Victorious Breath)
    A soft constriction at the back of the throat creates an ocean-like sound, helping to regulate the breath and calm the nervous system. Ideal for maintaining presence in longer holds.
  • Dirgha (Three-Part Breath)
    Breathing into the belly, ribs, and chest sequentially brings a feeling of fullness and release. Use this to cultivate awareness and spaciousness at the beginning of your practice.
  • Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing)
    A few rounds before or after Yin helps balance both hemispheres of the brain and clear energetic pathways.
  • Kumbhaka (Breath Retention)
    Gentle pauses after inhalation or exhalation can enhance stillness and heighten pranic flow. This should be used with awareness and only when the practitioner feels ready.

                                        Elevate Your Yin Experience

Integrating pranayama into Yin Yoga elevates the practice from a passive stretch to a multidimensional inner journey. It turns the mat into a sacred space where breath leads the way to healing—not just in the body, but in the heart, mind, and energy field.
Each inhale becomes an invitation to soften. Each exhale, a chance to release. Over time, the breath begins to weave your physical, mental, and energetic experience into a unified whole—deeply restful, quietly powerful, and profoundly transformative.

                                             Reflective Invitation

               As you settle into your next Yin Yoga practice, ask yourself:
“What shifts when I allow my breath to lead the way?”
Let this question guide your inner exploration—beyond the stretch, into the subtle. Your breath holds wisdom. Trust it, and it will carry you deeper than effort ever could.


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Yoga Nidra & Shavasana

11/16/2024

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Beginning and Ending in Stillness: The Power of Meditation in Yin Yoga

10/9/2024

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In a world that moves fast, Yin Yoga invites us to slow down. And when we bookend our practice with meditation—beginning in stillness and closing in awareness—we open the door to deep inner healing, energetic alignment, and soulful connection.
This simple yet powerful integration of meditation transforms a Yin Yoga session into something more than physical. It becomes a sacred ritual of return—return to self, breath, presence, and peace.

     Why Start with Meditation?
Beginning a Yin practice with meditation helps shift us from outer activity to inner awareness. Instead of rushing straight into postures, we pause. We breathe. We listen.
This initial stillness:
  • Centers the nervous system
    A few minutes of seated breath or mindfulness helps activate the parasympathetic state—your body’s natural mode for healing and restoration.
  • Invites intention
    Meditation clears mental clutter so you can step onto your mat with clarity and receptivity.
  • Enhances sensitivity
    By tuning in, you heighten your awareness of subtle sensation—making each Yin pose more profound and therapeutic.
  • Creates sacred space
    Meditation helps you cross the threshold from everyday life into your personal sanctuary of healing.

      The Practice: How to Begin
Start your Yin Yoga class or home practice with 3–5 minutes of simple meditation:
  • Mindfulness of breath: Just notice the natural rhythm without trying to change it.
  • Body scan: Gently bring awareness through the body from head to toe.
  • Anchor phrases: Repeating a soft inner mantra like “I am here,” or “Inhale, calm... Exhale, release.”
This short opening prepares the soil of your inner world for the deep work Yin offers.

    Why End with Meditation?
As your practice concludes, meditation becomes an integration point—a way to seal in what has shifted, softened, and been released. In Yin, we often move deep layers of physical, energetic, and emotional tension. Closing in meditation gives space for those changes to settle.
Ending in meditation:
  • Supports emotional assimilation
    Yin often unlocks held emotion. Meditation allows you to witness and honor what arose.
  • Deepens self-awareness
    With the body open and quiet, insight often arises with more clarity and ease.
  • Enhances the benefits of the practice
    Just as sleep integrates learning, post-Yin meditation integrates embodied awareness.
  • Returns you to wholeness
    It’s a moment of deep arrival—where nothing needs to be fixed, changed, or improved. Just presence.

     The Practice: How to End
After your final pose or Shavasana, remain seated or lying down for a few more minutes:
  • Notice the inner landscape—any sensations, emotions, or energetic shifts.
  • Practice gratitude for your body, your breath, and the stillness that held you.
  • Repeat your intention or a closing mantra to seal the practice.
Even one minute of quiet presence can ripple through the rest of your day with calm and clarity.

     In Stillness, We Remember
Yin Yoga already asks us to be still—but when we begin and end with meditation, we deepen that stillness into wisdom. We cultivate the art of arriving—fully, gently, lovingly.
Let meditation be your threshold and your return.

     Reflective Invitation:
Have you experienced the stillness of meditation before or after your yin yoga practice? Do you feel like it elevated your practice or helped you go deeper within during the poses?
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Yoga Nidra and Dopamine Levels

8/28/2024

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I love that science is proving what the ancients already knew!!!
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Practicing Yoga Nidra regularly has a profound effect on your overall health and well-being-not only your dopamine levels!
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Kjaer, et al. (2002). Increased dopamine tone during meditation-induced change of consciousness.
Cognitive brain research.

Fialoke, S., et al. (2024). Functional connectivity changes in meditators and novices during yoga nidra practice.
Scientific Reports.

Krishnakumar, D., et al. (2015).
Meditation and Yoga can Modulate
Brain Mechanisms that affect Behavior and Anxiety-A Modern Scientific Perspective. Ancient science.

Balasubramaniam, M., et al. (2013).
Yoga on our minds: a systematic review of yoga for neuropsychiatric disorders. Frontiers in psychiatry.
Hölzel, B. et al. (2011). Mindfulness practice leads to increases in regional brain gray matter density. Psychiatry research.
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How cool is that?!
Hope to share the practice with you soon!
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What is the Benefit of a Sound Bath?

7/17/2024

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Attending a sound bath is a wonderful and effortless way to put yourself into a deeply meditative state. This state brings clarity and awareness to our minds and hearts...Elevating our sense of consciousness and Self connection...Which has the potential to positively transform our lives!
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What I Wish You Knew About Yin Yoga

7/8/2024

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As a yin yoga teacher since 2013 these are a few things I wish everyone knew about it 😁

1. Yin isn’t about getting to the deepest stretch possible. It’s about going slow enough to really feel what’s happening in your body and stopping where you feel about a 6/10 sensation. Staying tuned in to your body so you know exactly when your tissues invite you to take it a little deeper.

2. The props actually assist you in relaxing into the shape, they allow your muscles to relax more which ultimately allows the practice to be about the connective tissues.

3. Yin yoga is an intentional, specific practice/style of yoga asana. Each shape has a target area that is accessed safely and mindfully. Although the poses are the same as in your other yoga classes-the intention is different.

4. In yin yoga the shapes are held passively for several minutes at a time with your muscles as relaxed as possible. This is how the fascia, tendons, ligaments, joints and bones are nourished. If we exert lots of effort or are moving around a lot the muscles take up the stress and then it becomes a deep stretching session. Not yin.

5. Us teachers want you to practice in such a way that works for YOUR body. We all vary anatomically -the shapes of our bones, the variations in our body types, past or current injuries all play a part in how your body looks in a pose.
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I’m always happy to answer questions-so feel free to ask!!
Happy yinning everyone!

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January 11th, 2015

1/11/2015

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I am so excited about this new year and all the yoga I am bringing to my community! I am so happy I am now using the Tapestry studio in Viroqua for 2 of my classes and other special events. It is a beautiful studio and has such a good vibe. I will miss the LaFarge Wednesday P.M. class-but hope that those folks may consider coming into Viroqua that night :) Another change is that my Gays Mills class moved to the old community building on Main St.-although the new community building had a great view, I think this new space will be better for us. It has nice wood floors and is a smaller space I can keep cozier temperature wise.
I look forward to the training I'm about to take next weekend-it's a surprise...so I will tell you about it next month!
I continue to work privately with people and to teach at Organic Valley and with the students at Youth Initiative high school.
Lauren Hunt and I will continue our 4th Friday Kirtan gathering-hope to see you there sometime!
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My yin yoga class

11/3/2014

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A month ago I started teaching yin yoga for the first time. It has been an amazing experience. I am so blessed to have been guided to this practice, to have an amazing teacher and to now share it with my community. Yin yoga is a practice that brings you to deep connection with your body and with your mind. It actually teaches us to slow down and feel.
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A&P update

4/8/2014

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I just completed my A & P online course! I really, really enjoyed doing this. It wasn't quite what i expected, but it was awesome. I learned about all the systems in the body: Introduction to the Living Processes, The human cell(oh and WOW) this lesson blew me away! I KNEW we were made of miracle, but now I really know! Understanding Heredity, The Nervous system, The Skeletal system, The Muscular system, The Respiratory system, The Circulatory system(I think this was my 2nd favorite chapter), The Lymphatic system,The Integumentary and the Urinary systems, The Digestive system, and The Endocrine and Reproductive systems. 
I feel ready and am looking forward to A&PII!!!! Oh, annnnd i also scored 100% on the final!!!! fun! :-)
If any of you reading this may be interested in this life long learning course, here is the link to their website! http://www.ed2go.com/westerntc/online_course/hap/detail/Human_Anatomy_and_Physiology.html?Course=hap&CourseTitle=Human_Anatomy_and_Physiology
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